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When “Progressive” Becomes Possessive: is it Solidarity or Supervision?

When “Progressive” Becomes Possessive: is it Solidarity or Supervision?

What happens when moral purity replaces political solidarity

 

There is a special kind of bold that only shows up when nobody can see your face.

Give someone an avatar. A username. A filtered headshot from three elections ago. Watch how fast their spine grows online. Suddenly they are fearless. Suddenly they are historians. Revolutionaries. Judges. Jury. Executioner. All from a couch.

When there is no room to read, no body to respond to, no risk of someone looking you dead in the eye and saying “Who do you think you’re talking to?” something ugly gets comfortable. People stop talking to human beings and start talking at symbols. They stop engaging nuance and start staging sermons. The mask does not make them smarter. It just makes them louder.

These masked, bully-pulpit mouth-breathers almost always imagine themselves as the hero of the story. The brave truth-teller. The lone moral compass in a corrupted world. Ironically, they rarely notice that the script they are reading from has been recycled for generations. Righteous certainty. Flattened caricatures. A refusal to see the agency of the very people they claim to defend.

And loudness is easy when you are insulated.

It is easy to call people corrupt. It is easy to call them genocidaires. It is easy to question their intelligence, their integrity, their political strategy. It is easy to flatten entire communities into a thread of righteous fury when you do not have to carry the weight of what those words do once they leave your screen.

Keyboard warriors. That is what I call them. Not because they are strong. Because they are buffered. Buffered by distance. Buffered by curated bios. Buffered by the comfort of knowing they can log off.

And when you watch closely enough, when you strip away the slogans and the self-appointed moral authority, you begin to see something familiar underneath. A pattern. A posture. A habit that feels old in Black communities. Old and exhausting.

The mask just makes it bolder.

And that is where this story begins.

I said I was proud to vote for Jasmine Crockett.

That was it.

What followed was not policy disagreement. It was a cascade. A white queer man, who identifies publicly as married and politically “extremely left,” responded with the kind of tone I have come to recognize in certain corners of progressive spaces. It is a tone that sounds like liberation but moves like possession.

And when I stepped back to study his recent posts, a pattern emerged.

This is not about one man. It is about a habit.

A habit I have watched grow within segments of the white queer community and adjacent non-Black spaces: the reflex to disqualify Black political agency when it does not align with their moral absolutism.

Let’s be clear. Critique is not anti-Blackness. Disagreement is not anti-Blackness. Black leaders are not sacred and should not be insulated from accountability.

But patterns matter.

In the span of days, this individual posted repeatedly about Democratic officials as “genocidaires,” mocked Vice President Kamala Harris, dismissed Black women politicians as symbolic tokens propped up to “throw other marginalized groups under the bus,” and framed Black political engagement as intellectual dishonesty. Black elected officials were reduced to caricatures. Black voters were implied to be duped, morally compromised or spineless.

There is a long American tradition of that posture.

What struck me most was not the criticism itself. It was the certainty. The absolutist language. The rhetorical positioning of himself as archivist, truth-teller, moral arbiter. He insists that “Democrats only propel marginalized identities when they are willing to throw other marginalized groups under the bus.” He mocks Black women’s identity being “thrown into sarcasm and verbal attacks,” while simultaneously framing them as shills and political frauds.

This is a move James Baldwin understood well.

Baldwin wrote that the danger is not the open bigot but the liberal who imagines himself beyond critique. The liberal who insists he sees clearly, who believes his outrage exempts him from examining the inheritance he carries.

What I am observing here is not traditional right-wing racism. It is something more contemporary: ideological paternalism.

It operates like this:

1.    Black leaders who make strategic, institutional decisions are labeled morally corrupt.

2.    Black voters who support them are framed as compromised or intellectually weak.

3.    White progressive critics position themselves as the true guardians of justice.

That is not solidarity. That is displacement.

There is a reason this pattern lands differently when it is directed at Black women.

Black women have historically been the backbone of Democratic turnout. We organize. We build. We vote at higher rates than nearly any demographic group. We do the unglamorous labor of coalition politics. And yet, when we make pragmatic electoral choices, we are accused of betrayal.

What I see in these posts is a refusal to grapple with political reality while demanding that Black women bear the moral burden of the world.

Frederick Douglass understood that politics in America has always been the art of pressure and pragmatism. Ida B. Wells navigated institutions while confronting them. bell hooks wrote about the danger of identity becoming performance rather than practice. Toni Morrison warned that racism often reappears dressed in language that flatters the speaker.

There is a difference between radical analysis and radical posture.

The posts in question display a fixation on moral purity without equal attention to structural power. Democratic officials are framed as villains, but there is little acknowledgment of the asymmetry of power in American governance. There is heavy emphasis on personal betrayal and intellectual cowardice, but almost no recognition of how coalition politics functions in a two-party system.

When white queer voices repeatedly describe Black women politicians as shills, cowards or genocidaires, while dismissing the Black voters who support them, that pattern begins to resemble something old.

It resembles the assumption that Black political judgment requires correction.

It resembles the belief that Black women must prove their ideological purity to earn legitimacy.

It resembles the quiet inheritance of anti-Blackness that survives even in radical spaces.

Anti-Blackness is not only slurs. It is not only violence. It is the reflex to doubt Black agency. The ease with which Black political actors are deemed fraudulent. The speed with which our strategy is called stupidity.

It is the habit of centering white moral anxiety over Black lived experience.

As a Black woman in America, I live inside contradiction every day. I know this country’s violence. I know its hypocrisy. I also know its math. Electoral politics is not a purity ritual. It is triage. It is harm reduction. It is strategy layered on top of survival.

You can critique the Democratic Party. I do. You can push for better candidates. You should.

But when critique turns into a sustained pattern of discrediting Black leaders while positioning yourself as morally superior, that critique deserves its own examination.

The question is not whether white queer activists can criticize Black politicians. Of course they can.

The question is whether they can do so without replicating the historical impulse to control Black political direction.

There is a difference between standing beside Black women and standing over them.

One builds coalitions.

The other builds resentment.

When I said I was proud to vote for Jasmine Crockett, I was not asking for permission. I was expressing agency.

And agency is precisely what unsettles those who believe they alone hold the moral map.

If we are serious about liberation, we must interrogate not just power structures, but the ways we internalize hierarchy even as we claim to dismantle it.

Anti-Blackness does not disappear in queer spaces. It does not dissolve in progressive language. It must be named wherever it resurfaces.

Even, and especially, when it calls itself radical.

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